Buried with him, or handed down
The Horniman Museum holds a carved wooden Shona headrest from Zimbabwe (museum number 20.13). Its record says that among the Shona, headrests were traditionally used by mature men to keep their hairstyles in place while they slept, and that they were intensely personal and symbolic objects connected to the ancestral realm, usually buried with the owner at his death or passed down to his descendants. Their carving is said to evoke the female form, with two breast-like circles on the support. The record compares this headrest with one in the British Museum (Af1892,0714.26) that J.H.T. Bent collected before 1890.
To verify: The British Museum’s own record for the headrest J.H.T. Bent collected before 1890 (Af1892,0714.26): we know it only from the Horniman’s note and could not open the British Museum’s site; The date of the Horniman headrest itself, which its record does not give